He was the most famous eligible bachelor in the town and she was the most beautiful girl ready to give her heart to the one who sought after her. He was handsome, professionally qualified and had a good job with a multi national company. He was earning handsome salary, bought a fast car and had everything that any girl could ever ask for. Personally too his upbringing seemed to be good and he appeared very confident, a little brash and arrogant may be, but you can say it is the age. Not that the girl was meek, she knew that she was beautiful and was sure of herself. She too came from a very well known family where her brothers were into family business and doing very well for themselves.
So it wasn’t any surprise that both had to find each other and fall in love. It was the most colorful romance in the town. Everyone apparently expected this to happen anytime. As expected people were happy to see the young couple romancing and living in their own world building castles. Soon romance gave way to a commitment and they were engaged to be married. The entire community got invited for the wedding and for days together people talked about the wedding which took place on a beautiful sunny day on Sunday at the local church.
Soon after the marriage the couple took off on their honeymoon and the rest of the community went back to their home and lives having blessed the couple. After a few weeks of honeymoon overseas the couple returned back to the town, moved into their new home and started their life together.
If you thought the fairy tale ended here and they lived happily ever after you are mistaken. This was the beginning of a troublesome relationship. The first few months everything seemed normal. The couple got busy doing up their home and enjoying partying over the weekends. Everything seemed normal. It was only a few months down the line that the strain began to be noticed by the close family. Both were very loving and concerned about each other but one could feel a sense of caginess and uncomfortable tension between the two. Apparently things were not well. However unless asked for nobody is likely to venture into finding out what is really wrong and it is quiet normal for newly married couples to have fights and is expected to make up on their own.
This was not a usual case and after a few months when the differences began to show up, they were forced to go to a marriage counselor who referred them to see a sexologist. The doctor ran some diagnostic tests and found that the man suffered from erectile dysfunction and hence the couple could not enjoy a happy loving relationship and satisfy each other. Further analysis lead to understanding the cause which was related to a troubled childhood and emotional stress with which the man had grown up. Though externally he had masqueraded his emotional stress and shown an overconfident exterior, internally he had never reconciled to the emotional hurt he had faced as a child. All the negative emotions had been bottled up from within and it shown in the form of premature ejaculation as well as erectile dysfunction. The doctor then had to explain to the couple that essentially there wasn’t anything wrong with the man’s libido or in physical body. It was a minor problem that could be taken care with sex counseling and with administration of medication. Accordingly he was treated with daily dose of Viagra along with multi vitamins and went in for several counseling sessions.
After six months the couple set off for a second honeymoon only to return with the happy news that the wife was pregnant. The entire community got invited to another party to celebrate and participate in the happiness of the most beautiful couple of their town. These are true stories that happen all the time. Life is not a bed of roses, but we can with a bit of help remove the thorns. It is quite likely that you too will have problems with your physical body, your sexual drive and love life with your spouse. Instead of allowing the problem to destroy your relationship and happiness, find solutions and seek professional help. Wonder drugs like Viagra are available to solve your problem. You have to reach out for help from doctors that’s all.
